I filed bankruptcy in 2007. I had always associated filing bankruptcy with failure, but I found the experience to be a relief as well as a positive step in the right direction.
My life prior to filing was full of stress about how I was going to
make the payments each month. I found that I was having to borrow from
one credit card to make the payment on another to stay current. What
ended up taking place was a cycle that only got worse over
time and compounded the problem even more.
Before long, the credit
card companies began to increase the interest rates
which became the icing on the cake. There was no way I would ever be
able to get the account paid down because the interest rate was so high.
After careful consideration, I visited with an attorney to find out
what my options were. The first task at hand was to analyze my finances
and identify what my monthly expenses and net income was. It was
determined that my expenses, including my debt was higher than my
income and that the only option for me was to file bankruptcy.
My first thought was what a failure I was. I am college-educated and an
intelligent person? How could I let this happen? But I soon realized I
was making an informed and responsible decision that would lift the
burden of debt and give me a fresh financial start.
Looking back, it was
probably one of the best decisions I have ever
made.
I now realize the importance of managing my finances and living
within my means. Everything I purchase now is on a cash-only basis and
requires advanced planning on my part to budget for items such as
vacations.
If you are considering bankruptcy or do not have any alternative, take
pride in knowing that you are making a sound financial decison and that
you are not a failure. Take it as a lesson in life and learn from the
experience to ensure a brighter financial future.
Contributed
by Mark from Texas